“A person finds joy in giving an apt reply – and how good is a timely word!” (Proverbs 15:23)

Our words are the best reflection of our inner selves. Words form the basis of our communication and define the way information is transferred. But not all words are created equally, and even the best words spoken at the wrong time can ruin their intention. Today’s verse reminds us of the simple reality that a pertinent response given at the right time can change lives. Pulling apart the verse into its two statements we have (1) the joy experienced through “an apt reply”, and (2) “how good is a timely word” (or a word spoken in due season – NKJV). The Collins (online) dictionary describes the phrase “an apt reply” to mean a response that is relevant, to the point, and particularly appropriate. With some more common synonyms for the phrase being fitting, proper, and/or suitable. So “an apt reply” is one that makes sense and adds value to the recipient. But this verse doesn’t refer to casual conversations, it’s pointing to that sage wisdom that we have come to expect from our grandparents. The one-liner in response to the day’s greatest challenge. The words that speak hope and give direction. An apt response, in the context of today’s verse, is the response that takes a person out of their shell and opens their eyes to an entirely new perspective. And the proverb says that the benefit of providing such a response is joy. The second point of the proverb is equally important. Knowing there is a time and a place for things. Detailing exactly how a child messed up in a sporting event, for example, may be accurate but could also be untimely as they’re sobbing already. Giving advice when the advice is needed is crucial for it to have a benefit. So today’s conclusion is simple; words are important; the right words can bring great joy; but even valid words, when given at the wrong time, will do more harm than good.